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Thu May 22, 2008, 8:51 PM
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Don't you hate it when you over hear your parents talking about you? I know I do... they have no faith in me what so ever. I want to be an artist and they say go for it to my face, but say that I need to get serious and get a new career option cause i'm not good enough behind my back. Saying that I have to learn that myself and learn the mistake i an making myself. Of course they will never say that to my face. It kind of hurts when they make references to me doing something other then art... cause I know they think I am not any good... I don't really have high self esteem and I already have my doubts about whether or not i can actually do it, and they're attitude towards it only makes me feel worse since every contest I have entered, or scholarship I have applied for, i haven't worn or gotten. I guess I am kind of upset. I really don't know what to do now...

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:iconmischievouspooka:
Don't let that discourage you. Sometimes parents think art jobs are hard to find and get and sometimes they are but if you know more than one skill the easier it is to find a job. I went to college for animation. That field it is best to know 2D and 3D animation. Which it is also best to take some motion graphic or web design with it because if you can't get an animtion job right away you can always get a motion graphic or web design job and a lot of time those jobs have a bit of animation in them already and it makes your portfolio look good when you apply for animation jobs. And to get scholarships, you have to give them a lot of still life of objects, landscapes, and life drawing to get their interest in giving you one. Life drawing is an important one for animation.

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:iconanjali25:
If you're that passionate and determined to work as an artist, I say, there's nothing stopping you...at the end of the day it's your decision. You may want to do alot of research about the career line, and consider other options, because things don't always go smoothly. Your parents are probably looking at what's best for you in the long run, and a better, secure future. Perhaps have a more open discussion with your parents, where you can present them any ideas and info...it'll show that you're responsible and hard-working to them.

Looking through your gallery, I can see that you're a talented artist and will go far...but the thing is there's alot of competition in the art industry. It's never nice to hear your parents talking behind your back, it hurts. You know...I always think kids do better when they're encouraged. Don't take their critisms too personally, always keep an open-mind.

I understand what you're going through, since I've been through a similar thing. I so badly wanted to go for an art course, but I'll be studying pharmacy at uni in september. I'm ok with this, as it's a bright future...but I'll never give up my art though. My parents told me to keep art as a sideline, you know...as a hobby. I didn't like this much, since like you, I love art and want to give it alot of attention.

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:iconnimblebun:
yeah, i've never caught my folks talking behind my back...because they'd say it to my face in a polite manner. They were scared when I said that I wanted to be an art major. but this is where you need to do your own personal research. Doing what you love is fine, but in the end you really need to look at it from a realistic angle. I wanted to be an artist, but I had to find something art oriented that would actually benefit me and get me a real job (not free-lance work like alot of fine-artists tend to rely on). So if you really love art, thats cool, but you may want to keep that as your hobby and try to find something you can get a job that you think you'll like while keep up with your art skills. I'm going to give you some examples of people who were art majors and what ended up happening to them (i know these people)

most people who were fineartists either have to fee-lance a lot or work in a retail store just to support themselves so they can do their craft on their own time...when they actually have time. You really ought to talk to free-lance artists and really get to know what they have to go through now that they're in the big scary world now.

I looked at your gallery, you've got a lot of great ideas and you draw very well. but your parents really want you to be able to support yourself in the long run because they worry about you because they love you. its not because they think you can't do anything.

So if you really want to be an artist, look at graphic design when you get to college. at least you know that there is full time work available after you graduate.

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:iconthecatwalk:
yea lol I wanted to do animation actually... lol i just dont like how my dad in particular acts about it. lol he thinks all 3 of us are going to fail at life. he says that too... -,-... he says my stupid" im not going to college! im going to go pro soccerplayer and become a millionaire!" sister who never practices soccer and is never pt into the game is going to be better off in life then me...x,x jsut makes me really upset. lol thanks for the advice XD im feeling better now :3 ( o btw,I want to submit something to your contest >.>;)

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Vitani: So you are going to just sit here and wallow in your own self pity all night then?
Feitz: Of course not!
Vitani: So, what are you going to do then?
Feitz: This place closes at 10, then I will go find some place else to wallow.
Vit: Oh boy...
:iconnimblebun:
you got 21 minutes;)

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:iconthecatwalk:
lol does it HAVE to be colored? XD

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Vitani: So you are going to just sit here and wallow in your own self pity all night then?
Feitz: Of course not!
Vitani: So, what are you going to do then?
Feitz: This place closes at 10, then I will go find some place else to wallow.
Vit: Oh boy...
:iconnimblebun:
no

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well, you know that with the flick of my wacom, i'll make anything you want happen just like that.
:iconthecatwalk:
o good XD

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Vitani: So you are going to just sit here and wallow in your own self pity all night then?
Feitz: Of course not!
Vitani: So, what are you going to do then?
Feitz: This place closes at 10, then I will go find some place else to wallow.
Vit: Oh boy...
:iconnimblebun:
better uplaod it;)

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:iconthecatwalk:
I missed it XD. Ill enter your next one x3. lalala.

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Vitani: So you are going to just sit here and wallow in your own self pity all night then?
Feitz: Of course not!
Vitani: So, what are you going to do then?
Feitz: This place closes at 10, then I will go find some place else to wallow.
Vit: Oh boy...
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